There are a bunch of books about, um, blowing her away, but She Comes First is a winner. As long as things don't become routine, you'll be OK.

Some lubes come in a pump bottle, no unscrewing a cap & squeezing, but it'll be cold. I wonder if putting it on one of those little hot plates for mugs would help. Maybe it'd melt the bottle. oops \:o Just putting the bottle in a bowl of hot water would work.

A long time ago I heard a guy say he knew someone who was "so long" that he wore "a donut" so he couldn't accidentally push in so far he'd hurt his wife. Maybe a sex toys catalog has something like that. Sounded logical at the time. On that surprising note, I'll wish you luch & goodnight.
Jayce

me: 66
H:60
2 adult sons
2 grandsons
adult daughter deceased 5/05
me:Part time trainer
H: plant suprv.