We met last night at D's riding lessons. We talked about everyhting but the R. It was nice, I was very polite, and she seemed distant but talked. She didn't speak too much about anyhting but neither did I. It was still nice. She was looking pretty worn down, I wanted to hold her and comfort her like the old times, but I doubt it would have been allowed anyway. She still looked beautiful to me anyway. I am kinda worried about her, her family has a hands off approach, they don't give advice (except her controlling dad) for fear of going against the father.

Got a letter from my lawyer today (dated Fri) that says to call him ASAP about changes in the file? Called but he was in a discovery and hasn't called back.

Was dying to ask her where she went on the weekend, but I didn't. She sent me the nastygram on Sat about trying to contact the OM's wife on facebook. As well, it's only been a week and a half since I confronted her about him. So it's gonna be interesting.

Nothing too new, but still wanted to post something, it's nice to tell the story anonymously without any pre-judgements or ideas.


Me: 36 years old 1st marriage
Wife: 40 years old second marriage
S: 12
D: 6
Status: Separated Nov 2/08, Served papers Feb 18/09.
PA confirmed 03/09
Custody: 1 week on, 1 week off, wife wants sole.