Letting go and taking a left off last laugh lane

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Julia, I agree with Ali & Mishka. Don't know what more I could add. I wouldn't worry about discussing the house & division, that will come in time. Although, if you seem comfortable, maybe you should ask him to pick up his things. But really, just focus on that dam loan he took out. If you feel comfortable about talking about D - I would. If not in the restaurant, then outside when you leave. It will give him much to think of. If you don't like how your M is then D needs to be brought up. Remember this is your life. Good luck!!