In my sitch when I first confronted i was told, "I don't even think he is attractive, he is ust someone to talk to"
Now after reading books about how it's all about the emotional need being met not attraction... I think maybe she was telling the truth right there ?????
If it is truly a crisis at could last for a long time, seriously you should learn as much as you can. You will need to know how to handle things. It will test your patience like no other.
So Kenn, I see that the hair thing is important to you. You check out the Hair Club and I will get that darn Firm dvd with the "wave" step thing so that I can work out at home.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
I have said before to my friends. My wife is not horrible. I was in a funk thinking I was doing all the right things.
I think she could have tired to talk to me a hundred times and i would have dismissed it as her just being selfish. It wasn't until she took off her rings that I really self reflected and started to fix myself.
Now I am trying to do the best to keep it from messing up my beautiful daughter.
And wishing that her goodby hadn't been the end of her rope.
Maybe not so but when I read everyone's post's I am not sure I can do it.
