that was one of my biggest flaws during marriage. When she first told me I stayed in house for two months. I started spending more time with her and just listening'
It was really enjoyable. Those two months staying there messed me up worse than anything because it was fun and we spent more time together. Kind of like getting one more lick of the ice cream cone before someone takes it away.
But I am really working on not trying to fix stuff.. Probablly not as good at it as I think though