Some people are helping me in my thread and I talked about the mixed signals.
Those are them. So many times we talk and it's like we are still together. Then there are days where she is mad at the world and it's all my fault. Then there are the days where no contact - we divorcing and don't want to talk to you.
humpf................
Strange but I try to be pleasant and treat them all the same.
With my wife I have to fight the urge to step up and try to correct it for her. It has become more than obvious to me that she hates that!!!!!!!!! Big Time!!!!!!
With my wife I have to fight the urge to step up and try to correct it for her. It has become more than obvious to me that she hates that!!!!!!!!! Big Time!!!!!!
Yeah they really don't like it much when you try to play Mr. Fix it. Listening and not offering advice unless asked ussually make things a bit smoother.
that was one of my biggest flaws during marriage. When she first told me I stayed in house for two months. I started spending more time with her and just listening'
It was really enjoyable. Those two months staying there messed me up worse than anything because it was fun and we spent more time together. Kind of like getting one more lick of the ice cream cone before someone takes it away.
But I am really working on not trying to fix stuff.. Probablly not as good at it as I think though
