as far as the janitor job goes, it's not the fact that she is the boss. I have done a better job doing that job than anyone she has ever had, her empoyees and the people that come in every day are the ones who have commented on that. She really recogonizes that, even though she doesn't really show much gratitiude.
For me it's really more about the fact that she built her buisness up in our home for eight of the ten years she has been in buisness and now two years ago she is just starting to make enough money that we as a family would just start being able to reap the rewards of the sacrifice we all made while it was in our home.
So she will be sitting pretty with the ability to just now start to save to buy a home, take vacations and do fun stuff with the money the buisness is bringing in.
I do fully admit I resent her for it. I had to make so much sacrifice in my home with people coming in and out of our house and having no privacy during all those years.