What's next???? The adventure continues!!!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

You answered your own question:

I know some of it--GAL, PMA, other DB stuff. I am trying sooooo hard to be patient.

BINGO. There ain't no magic answers here, brother. It is WORK, and Michele Weiner-Davis has written the manual for us to follow.

The secret is in the followin'.

Puppy

[dburt]

I've often thought dating would bring my wife around; but then I'd be stooping to her level.

THIS NOT WHAT I MEANT. I just gave you an example of when we were dating. I was saying to get out and enjoy life, when they think they are missing something is when you are most likely to get a response.

I do not and would not ever suggest to date anyone while married.

Burt

[song]

AF,

Something that I read once and have tried to keep in mind is this:

The one who cares the least for the R has the power.
The one who cares the most for the R has time.

I feel your pain, wish none of us were here, but unfortunately we are. You are in my prayers.

[AFWAW]

I am perplexed. My W is sending me job announcements from her work still. Does she really expect me to accept a job in the same building as her if she divorces me? I don't get that frame of mind. Am I missing something?

[AFWAW]

Should I even respond to these emails?

[marriedCrazy]

Should I even respond to these emails?

NO

If it were me and I wasn't interested; I would feel no need to acknowledge them.

[song]

Should I even respond to these emails?

No response IS a response.

She's poking at the caged animal, trying to get a response.

[Mellenmack]

No, you don't respond!!!

You told her you thought about pcsing, right? And now she is thinking that if you take a job there, it is prolly a three year extension, huh? What a great way to keep you around while she decides what she wants.

Who needs that??

PS. Start a new thread cause this one is gonna lock!

M