Hi Kitty -

It is sad that it seems that most people here on DB end up divorced. There are a few exceptions, but very rare.

From what I have read of your posts, it sounded like you lost custody in court. But now you have full custody? How old are your children?

What country did your H bring you from? Have you ever considered moving back?

I would guess if you could show proof to a French court that he got married, then you should be granted the divorce.