Thanks stuck, So when u say no contact for 3 weeks, does that mean me not initiating or me ignoring all calls and texts for 3 weeks? He is suppose to let me know when to update the checkbook about once a week, and I asked him to text/email that info, hoping that way it would limit him to only calling me if he wanted to.
It used to be a "fix" for me, but not anymore. 5 days can pass without me hearing anything from him and I don't think of it so much anymore like I used to. I just remind myself to not pick up that phone or I might ruin my progress.
So what do u think I should about tomorrow? I would feel like a complete jerk if I didn't at least text a happy bday or something. I'd like to not be that cold hearted lol..what do u think?
I'm not getting him anything for sure (I was always the one making all the plans on special occasions and buying him gifts when I wouldn't even get a card from him in return in the past).
I was thinking of offering dinner to him, but I don't know if that would be taking it too far
