I've moved here from MLC

[AJM]

LOL. I think you're catching on. (the Ok's made me laugh).

Keep in mind you're learning to be you. Sounds odd, but that's what your husband wanted. That's really what you wanted too, isn't it?

TRUST ME already. He has feelings for you and wants you back. He never wanted to lose you, but he never wanted to be treated like that and felt like you weren't listening and weren't going to change.

You felt that way too, didn't you?

Now's your chance to be the amazing woman you've always wanted to be.

Stop hoping I'm right and start knowing I'm right. I am. Ok?

As for the questions - no. I cannot tell you the questions. I can tell those are some of the right ones though because they're about you. I can tell you're changing your thinking and your focus and I can tell it's having positive results. You're planting seeds. You're waiting for them to grow. You're checking the plants before they get that chance (I love that analogy - it works well). Stop doing that. Plant. Wait. Be patient.

You're reorganizing very very well. It won't be easy all the time, but you're doing very well.

Journal your goals and your situation. You'll want to look back and see the small changes to give you encouragement. You'll want to see the effect it has on WAS as well. It'll help you to not file the papers or stick them in places that would be uncomfortable to him. Or morally compromising.

Keep that PMA. Do yourself a favor and tell as few of your personal friends as possible. Tell them you and H are working through some issues, but don't go into detail. The fewer people that know the better. Same as your parents did, right?

Keep it up!

AJ