Don't look back

[cz946]

I had an interesting conversation with my X-MIL last night. She picked d5 up from school, so I had to stop by and get her. XMIL ended up talking to me for 1 hour about XW. I know I can trust her not to say anything to XW, so I think its ok.
XMIL was bitter cause XW had not called home to talk to d5 since she has been on vacation. She said I don't even know who she is anymore. So thats how it started, then she went off in to relationship talk. She thinks XW made a huge mistake and would just wake up. She didn't realize how much she has been hanging out with OM, and was besides herself when I told her she was already taking d5 around him. XMIL said I want to ki!! him. LOL.. I said you can do anything that will just push her more to him. She realizes this and doesn't say anything to XW. She also commented on how XW wife is self centered and only cares about herself right now.
I told her that I made some mistakes too, but just wish she would have given me one more chance. I said I have learned so much, I know I will be a great husband. XMIL responded "you were a great husband before you ever read any books".

It also turns out that XW has been telling her family I have like 3 GF's. Who knew, guess I'm the man.LOL... I wish.. Well not actually, I just want my XW.

The only thing is, XMIL asked me not to give up on XW. I responded that I haven't but what I have been doing isn't working. I told her that I have to move on, not as in with a relationship with OW, put really let XW realize that I am not hers anymore. I said, she has her cake and can eat it to. She is getting spoiled by her sugar daddy, and I am still at her becking call kissing her butt trying to be her best frined and win her back. I said I can't do this anymore. Its killing me.

I told her I want all or nothing.