Seperated

[LitlHopeAlwys]

Hi T2SP,

The book will inevitably lead her to the message board.

And you can't "teach" someone who is wayward.

I'm also not seeing anything in her actions that indicates that she's at all ready to start "working on the marriage."

Just my opinion; I guess we'll have to disagree.

Puppy

Hi Puppy and Thank you everyone for your advice. You are correct to say that there are no indicators of her being ready or even willing to work on our marriage. There really isn't any communication between us at this point except when one or the other of us is picking up\dropping off child. On the rare occasion when we do talk on phone or in person, its more of mixed sayings on her side. She can say one thing one breathe about working through everything, and in the next she starts talking about the D word. This is most of the reason why i wasn't sure if it was a good idea for her to read the "playbook".
For now what i am going to do is keep it somewhere that even if she comes by she will not see it.