I've been 5 years in this turmoil. At the beginning I was divorce busting. I had quite some old threads but they are all lost. I've asked the administrator about it but he can't find them.
My marriage is obviously cannot be saved. I am still jealous and perhaps I want a revenge. I still cannot overcome the hurt, betrayal and the horrible feeling of rejection.
All my old DB buddies are all divored, no exception. Now I should focus on surviving the big D.
I sound so bitter, how should I not be? He brought me to France when he loved me. He abandoned me there with our two children when he doesn't love me anymore. I feel like a disposable object to be trashed.
Perhaps I shouldn't dig into this root and just head for the divorce. FYI, he had his petition of diovrce (after 2 yr separation) rejected by the court and I had my petition of diovrce on adultery ground rejected by the court in feb 2009. He didn't respect the 2 yr deadline and the court said I have no adultery proof. Now I think I have.
You have a lot of threads. You love your children and have a girl friend now. You move on. I wish I would move on too. Thanks Kerry.
my last thread : Lost in his MLC
http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=957116&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
