I hope you understand I am not judging you, I have made my share of mistakes as well. I just have a sense that there is more going on than meets the eye and was trying to offer an alternative to just giving an ultimatum. Again, I am assuming that she knows or suspects and basing it on that, but you are in a better position to know.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
