Craig- What I heard is that the divorce actually doesnt change what the Wal away thinks it will either.....its just most lbs are hurt and bitter and can not endure the waiting....only you can decide to wait or not...but really the divorce does not change things and the walk away does not find the releif they think they will...like you I feel like ok less pressure.....and ok those feelings of I am not enough...well ok..less pressure there too...I would just be still grow in the Lord and seek Gods will for you.....trying to get away from the pain isnt the solution....but just dont focus on it..