I'm not really sure why I'm typing here at this point. Maybe it's so I'll have some kind of record. Things have gone from bad to worse, to worse even still.
I've had two conversations with my wife since the last time I posted anything. Each time I have tried to do what my coach and the book says. Each time I have found that things are worse than I thought before.
Cat,
Define "worse." Do you define it this way? :
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the more I talk to my wife, the more I find out how much she hates me, loathes me, has no respect for me etc. etc. etc. etc.
If you are, then you're using the wrong metrics. You don't measure DB success by the content of wayward spouses' spew.
You measure success by how much closer you are to YOUR goals than you were before. What ARE your goals? What are you doing for YOU?
