However, I know that my STBXH is saying it is ME that is holding everything up...and at the beginning of the divorce I admit I was shell-shocked from finding all this stuff out and I was depressed about actually getting divorced but, amazingly, I bounced right back after a few weeks!
I have been ready to move through this process...understanding that i am STILL processing emotion that comes along with actually being divorced.
I have asked him to forward copies of the utility bills so I can switch them to my name and he has yet to do that. AND have asked him for the 5th time WHEN he will be by to pick up his remaining items from the garage. Including the lawn mower that the OW came by to 'talk' about a few weeks ago.
You would think he would have jumped on that already...sigh.
Oh well. I will be divorced when my final tax question is answered---hopefully that is soon!!!
Hugs! Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
