Yes, Jack , you are right. OW has to go. And he has to realize he actually did have an affair. They haven't lived together so I hope this will bring about change. I know its a bit strange, but I do see change ..slight change ..already.
Yes, since he is living with OW, I have different boundaries with him. For example, when he tried grabbing me up the stairs I did slap his hand away. When he was coming at me in my house, I told him he was in my personal space. As for him hugging me, i hug him as a a stranger and he asks me to wrap my arms around him and kisses me on the neck.
I value myself more now..and its taken awhile.. to be touched by a man that is having an affair. I am the prize. she is nothing. I like your comment. I may use that one day.
