Oh, don't stop! That comment about how "it doesn't have to be in the bedroom at 7pm was excellent. Where did I read? Can't remember... Perhaps Schnarch. Each person has a list of "conditions," and it is important for lovers to know each other's "list."
I have a GF who is WAYYY HD. But, she absolutely will not have sex with her H if she hasn't showered. No matter how many times he has told her he doesn't care if she's stinky. She just can't feel hot if her V has been "stewing at a desk all day." For years, she would get angry with her H when he would initiate if she was "dirty." He rarely ever initiated and they had an SSM for years. I don't think the shower/clean condition was the only reason. Lately, he has made great changes in his approach to her. I'm not sure how his switch flipped... Anyway, now he'll call her from work to chat and then say in a sexy way, "Be ready for me tonight. I don't want to hear any of this shower stuff." My advice to her is to shower EVERY DAY when she gets home from work so that her H can be more impromptu with acting on his desire for her.