I can feel myself starting to stress. Separating the finances is proving harder then I thought, or more complicated. Stupid damn red tape, and I am stressing about what to bring up tomorrow.
I don't want this to be a hideous interaction. There are 3 things that could be brought up.
1. Most urgent - the bank account and loan. 2. That I want to divorce him - my solicitor says adultary is the cleanest if I don't want to go down the non-fault route which I don't. 3. Splitting the proceeds of the house.
But at the same time I want us to have a nice time together (my DBing urges are coming out again!) and this seems a lot to dicuss in one night. I think the most important is number 1. I could play it by ear with regards to the rest or I am wondering if we should take the bull by the horns and go for it. Sigh, all this will be in a restaurant, this seems very public to me!
Also, I haven't been able to find anything nice to wear... lol, I know this is a side issue but it is stressing me out a lot too
Feeling a bit like my head is going to explode and I need to get things in perspective. Any pointers on how to handle these kinds of conversations would be great!
