Ladies you are not alone, not all men are like that. Remember in the movie When Harry met Sally, her faceless man fantasy? Well my wife swears that is true, so I set it up, had her put on a dress that I had made out of tissue paper and wait in the bedroom, I then came in with nothing on but a mask with no features that I made out of gray cardboard, and tore off the dress, I'll leave the rest to your imaginations. It was fun and funny, but the point is that I try to do things for her, but she doesn't do anything for me. Granted my mind is pretty warped but I bet she could come up with something. I have set up dinners, and movies and motels, never once has she done anything along those lines.