There is nothing that you can do right now. Just continue to GAL and try to keep busy. Your H isn't ready for any kind of R with anyone right now including the ow, even if it seems like he is happy and content. His mind is a scrambled mess right now. The only reason I know this is because of what my H told me after all of this was over. He regretted ever getting involved with the ow. He was a mess and was searching for something. This is all a part of MLC. One day the fog will clear from your H's brain and he will again come down to earth and realise what he has missed.
