I do too. I want wayward men and women to read "NOT Just Friends," too, and "His Needs, Her Needs" and "The Five Love Languages," and "Sex-Starved Marriage" and "After the Affair" and so many others. All I'm saying is that they have to be READY to receive it; they have to be in the reconciliation phase.
If they're not, you really can't reach them, and therefore I don't think it's worth the risk of losing your ability to continue to anonymously use this valuable resource (the message board) as a support.
