Walk Away German Wife (WAGW)

[PortlandDad]

KK:

Thanks for the link. I knew I had to do parenting classes, so this definitely helps.

I think I am pretty much beyond the LRT. I am willing to go through with the D if this doesn't jar something loose, but it won't be easy. The real question is will she be able to go through with it? The kids were/are her life and the tentative agreement is that she is giving them to me. She won't have a place in their lives at all, outside of a 4 week vacation every year.

She loves kids! She has had a hysterectomy, so she won't be having any more biological kids of her own, and grand-kids will likely be in the cards in a few years, and she will not be in that scene either. I really hope this is the wake-up call she needs.