I thought you had more staying power than that. I guess I was wrong. I am coming up on a year separated and a year here on the forums, but in no way do I consider myself done. I am a little tired and can use a break from life. That is when I know I need to get out of the house more. But quitting on my marriage--nope, sorry can't do it. I made a vow and I intend to keep it. When God restores my marriage He will receive all the glory for His great and wondrous love for His children.
I guess some of the oldtimers are right--people have different limits to what they will put up with for how long. It just seems a shame that with as many positives as you have you would turn your back now. The text was a huge mistake and you know it. You are tackling things like this is all a big game that you can just quit at anytime. Life doesn't work that way. That is why most of us ended up here. Our spouse was not willing to work, just take the easy way out when things got tough.
More and more I am seeing LBS's pack up their toys and go home after only a few months of half-hearted efforts. I guess they are no more committed than their spouses were, it just took them longer to come to the realization. Sad, really, that the family has become so disposable to our society.
Do what you have to. It is your life. We were jsut trying to help you make it the best it could be.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~
Ahhh Laura..you're a good one for sure..
you want to borrow some "wood" from me?? I know you can swing much harder than that..Holy Crap..just think if these Noobs had "batchitt crazy" to deal with they would be locked up in a padded cell somewhere..
and on a personal note..how about sending a prayer up for my dad and VST41's mom..dad..brain tumor..VST's mom 3rd stage Lymphoma..both dianosed yesterday..it's over in the alternate..
