Thanks, I will pick up the book pronto. I am a poster child for db. It really works for me and I will continue to better myself to make me more attractive to her.
She has been in IC and recently (last monday) invited me in to her IC to turn it into a MC. We have another appointment in two weeks, as my wife suggested.
Thank you for the advice for a night out, I am always asking her what she wants to do, and she always asks back and then I say I dont care whatever you want to do, because I truly do want to do what she wants to do, but it does sound very week now that you mention to take charge.
I do not know if she knows what she wants in the bedroom, I think she thinks I should know, and after 20 years you would think I would. But, like last night I asked, if there is anything I could do different let me know I will do it, and she just said I know and patted me on the head as if to say I know you are trying but boy you are just lame.
Last night I got the almond oil out because she wanted a massage because she works as an interior artist and her back was hurting. When I got it, she had already stripped completely naked and was laying on a pillow on the bed. I thought yee haw because I know after about 20 minutes she is ready to kick it up to something sexual. I then see that she has her little buzzer as we call it and she uses it with me. We both climax at about the same time while i am on top of her and she is on her stomach.
I don;t know I just don't know if I should turn her over, rip the buzzer out of her hand, i am now just talking out loud, I will stop now.