Yesterday was a hard day. I had e-mail barrages with the wife pretty much the whole day about stuff. At the end, I finally told her that we should get a divorce. It was my first admission of that since last August when she came home from Germany. She asked if we could do an uncontested divorce, so I laid it all out for her:
* I will have sole custody. * She gets 4 contiguous weeks of visitation w/kids per year * We split the travel costs * She pays me CS * No spousal support * When the house sells, she gets 25k (we have 156k equity) * Property / assets are already divided
She agreed to it all. Financially, I guess I got a pretty sweet deal. I would rather have stayed in the R, but we shall see what this cold dose of reality does to her thinking.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09