I would NOT recommend letting her read it. Why would you want the opponent to read YOUR playbook?
This message board should be a safe haven for you to come to vent, get support, ideas, and bounce things off of others here. While I have seen some success ONCE YOU GET TO THE RECONCILIATION (or "Piecing") STAGE, from having both spouses active here on the forum, I don't think you're at that stage yet, are you?
