I unfortunately tend to agree with you. In the previous two weeks she has told both my s6 and d11 on seperate occasions that we are divorcing. I was livid with her, we, as a couple should have sat both children down together and explained to them what was going on and not to blame them etc. I believe she has so little respect for me that she is now attempting to detach ME from our relationship as she has said she wants to be with the children alone. I think she is looking at the situation with rose tinted glasses as she blames me for her shouting at the children because she is so unhappy because of me and thinks her little world in the family home will so much better (I do not wish to sound sarcastic)when I am gone.
Mark, I certainly hope you are documenting ALL of this in a journal, which you keep safe somewhere. That is unconscionable, and a family law judge is NOT going to look kindly upon such destructive behavior!