It is nice to hear from you. As I said in a previous post I took your advice about the golf this Saturday and suggested I returned early to see if the children would want to go into town with me for a pizza. My wife said my daughter had a friend coming over, I said she can come too and so can you (my wife) if you want. She immediately responded "well take wouldn't work would it". I ignored the reponse accordingly. The thing that did disturb me was my daughter of 11 was reluctant to commit to my invitation, my wife told me out of earshot of my daughter that she is slightly unsure of me as I have not spent nearly enough time with her in the past and she does not know quite how to take my sudden interest in both of the children. My son of 6 just sees his daddy more often so he is happy for me to be around.
I don't know if the fact I have not spent enough time with them when they were younger (I hate myself for that)and she has now picked up on that, or whether she has heard this during a row my wife and I have had. I am worried about this and need to address it.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
