I told her as soon as I get up and going I want to be able to help her in any way that she needs.
Don't ever tell her that again. I'm speaking from experience I would CONSTANTLY ask my wife if she needs help, I'll do whatever blah blah blah...It NEVER worked she would go out of her way to get someone else to help. When I stopped offering is when she started asking the BIG thing is I don't always help, I can't I have my OWN LIFE.
You are 100% focusing on your wife for YOUR happiness, been there done that, until you realize you can't do that anymore, you're going to be stuck.
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Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
