Please try not to react to what your W is saying to you. She is trying to hurt you......letting her know she has, is like patting her on the back for doing it. Don't give her the satisfaction. I know it is easy for me to say, and not so easy to do.....but remember that she is rewriting history at the moment to suit her ends.
Stop worrying about her and what she says and think about you and your children.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength