Living with me and the kids reminds him of those bad choices. I really do see his side of things from his perspective as I have listened to it for years - problem is he has never listened to my perspective or my kids' perspective.
Well put. This also goes for my situation as well. Because of the A and the snowball of he** that brings looking at your face only reminds him of the person he was when he was drinking. So for them the answer is giving up and starting over again...but in reality that is just starting the same cycle somewhere else.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
