Sorry your night of celebration ended the way it did.

The odd thing about WASs is that oftentimes they choose special occasions or holidays to drop the bombs. My W and I separated on the day of our birthdays.

"It just that she feels we were not meant to be together since we weren't able to maintain/develop the connection shortly after we were married. "

YOu are right. that was the past. This is the present.

"She tried to take a jab at me saying I so much, like she wasn't doing anything."

It's true though. She hadn't done much to try and stay in the M. She was waiting for the feeling to come back while she had one foot out the door. All she had to do was say she wasn't going to leave, to herself and go with the flow. You can't say you're trying when you still say you're leaving. That's a half-ass way of trying.

"Then she said that I was starting to get mean and nasty. I told her we would be kidding ourselves if we thought a divorce would be nice and easy."

Well you had to let it out and I don't blame you.

We'll see how things turn out in the morning.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER