WAW1

[markhaving probs]

This is a very interesting post A. I do not know if my wife is in an EA with somebody but I sort of have a gut feeling she has somebody in mind when we divorce because of the speed she wants to end everything and she won't look bad in the eyes of her friends and family. She denys it of course, but then she would anyway. I cannot control that, I have to carry on regardless as hard as it is.

A, in your sitch did your WAS try to reconcile because the affair was over, or was it some other reason? It sounds as though you have successfully come through the other side and I think that is great. I would not know what to do if I found out my wife was with somebody else, particularly if it was someone I knew. My wife could be in the middle of a MLC as she told me this morning that I did not have a good enough job, she should not have had to work so many hours etc, though apart from the mortgage we do not have any loans, credit card bills are payed in full etc. She says the money she had inherited was the reason we are where we are, and I have not contributed enough. I found this very hurtful.