Well, I got a LOT of great "cuddle time" with my baby girl!!!
And, guess what? Before my D left, as we were packing up the baby stuff, there was a plush stuffed dog there and I asked who that was from, and was amazed when D said that H brought it with him when he came over today!!! D looked at me and said "maybe there's hope for him yet Mom"....... I sure hope so......at least he is working on things with the kids. That is most important.
Even if, like he says, he hasn't loved me for a long time and those feelings haven't changed during our seperation, so he doesn't think they will ever change. I am grateful for his efforts for our kids and grand-daughter. I know it was difficult for him.
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd