BF's H caught in affair. My friend and her BFF promptly cut the crotch out of all of his pants, boxers, etc... and delivered them to the lawn of the OW, delivered the rest of his clothing to a Salvation Army, and sold all of his antique beer signs to a new pub that's opening!) Glad I know her. She'd never let you pout and feel sorry for yourself. She's a get even kind of gal. Whoa. She told my H the story last night (at our S11's bball game). I promptly added. Gee, Carla, hope I don't ever need your assistance! H said... "Me, too. I'd be scared sh*tless!"
That was hilarious! About fell out of my chair there! LOL!! So at least he knows what's coming to him if he went that way!!
Originally Posted By: mindblank
So, last night he sent me a txt, just prior to coming to the game (we drove separate since he was leaving afterwards), saying, "I'm going to kill that dog!" NORMALLY, I would reply, "Why, what did he do now?" or try to validate his unhappy response to a situation. I completely ignored it. Later on, he asked me if I got his txt. I said I did. And, just continued on with my conversation with another mom. He asks me later if I want to know what the dog did. I said, "Well, not really. You can handle disciplining the dog, the kids, etc... just fine. You're a great Man/Dad. I don't txt you with nastiness every time an issue arises during the day with the kids, the dog, the handyman, etc..., and I'm sure you're appreciative. You used to make me nervous with stuff like that, but I've I've come to know you do a great job overall, so I'm fine without knowing the details." Looked at me like I was from Mars. Then, asked if I wanted to stop for ice cream after the game. LOL
I have to say, I am REALLY impressed with how you reacted to that! Wish I could pull that kind of stuff off on the fly! Only response he had was "Wanna go for ice cream?" That's GREAT!
ALso, I want to tell you that, overall, your sitch seems to be prgressing pretty good. I know that you may not feel that way, but from an outside perspective it is looking good! I am sure others here will agree with me on that one!
