Hi glam- I understand about the lying...I have had major trust issues since my first H lied through his teeth constantly. I guess some people can temporarily turn off their conscious and some just people never had one to begin with. For some reason we can't figure out, your H has turned his off and you got to the point where you just can't use the "I haven't been where he is" anymore to justify such behavior. The time may be right for you to move forward without your H...he may catch up or he may not but it shouldn't be your concern right now because you need to get yourself in a better place. I can sense by your posts that you have become increasingly unhapppy. The lying was just the icing on the cake.
Keep going to the gym and finding things to do for you. Dig down and find your PMA...you can really use it now. I am sure if you can do that, very soon there will be some much brighter days.
