You have gotten great advice here! Take it. I too was the friendly kind who always spoke first, etc. I had the hardest time detaching. But, it is essential for your own sanity. And, it's the only thing she's gonna notice at this point...it will be a 180 for you as well.
I'll be following along! Keep your chin up!! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!