lol at this sitch . Now you know how it feels!

But seriously it seems like you have put a lot of effort into improving your M lately. Is it true your H is HD but it is u who has been doing all the running to improve things. How great you are. You deserve something back and you can tell him I said so! I would let my H have any pet he wanted if he did that for me. Well maybe except for a tarantula.

In my case I am still having trouble getting up the nerve to try and talk to him about it. I feel like I would be making myself most vulnerable by being so open and talking about sex which ain't easy for me, just when he is likely to be defensive, unsupportive and hurtful. Well I think I have to grit my teeth and do it. But it's kinda scary. So I really hope your H appreciates what you have done for him.
Love Jijixxx