craig54 divorced but still love my wife

[craig54]

Today I had to go to morgan stanley and take my wife's name off of all my IRA's and 401k. It is interesting how people react when you tell that that you are divorced. Some people want to congratulate you and some people are very sorry. If given the chance I usually tell them it was not what I wanted.I intend to invite her to church this sunday, I really want her to know that I really care about what happens to her regardless of our marital status.Her soul is more important than anything. At times I am relieved that the paper work is finalized, it takes a cetain amount of pressure off.My boss called me into his office today and we talked for a few minutes about my situation. He is genuiuly concerned. He talked about raising my salary to help offset the loss of my wifes incomce. I was truly surprised about the offer. We have worked together for over 30years.