Oops!!.......I think I've dropped the rope!!

[Silent Chrleader]

Hey, Friends.

I know you all are right. Detach!! The emotions brought on from K's birth just brought it all back to the surface.

In some ways though I do think it may have had some good effect. H came over to my apartment to have his talk with D. He was supposed to come over on the same ferry but apparently he left early and drove around instead of taking the ferry, so when S17 and I got home, H and D had already talked. He held the baby for maybe 5 minutes until she started to fuss and then quickly handed her back. Then he left.

D said that the talk went much better than she expected. Said H agreed to just let it all go and move forward. D and fiance and K are moving into the house in a couple weeks after I get back from CA. H says he will finish the floors and some of the bigger projects but the other stuff he would want help with. So, D is happy. The house is very convenient to fiance's work.

One small interesting point. H thought that todays session with C was to be a 2 hour (2 back to back sessions) which he was going to do with S17. But, when I got to work, my schedule showed today as a one-hour, and tomorrow as the two-hour. So, I called H to tell him and offered for me to take today and he and S17 could have tomorrow. Surprisingly H said he didn't want that because he wanted an individual session with C. This is interesting because H told me last week that he had stopped IC. In the end it was a moot point, because C called in sick so we didn't have a session. I told H he could take one of the sessions tomorrow, but he wasn't sure about his schedule (he has 7 interviews tomorrow for employees).

So, I'm hoping that just maybe I didn't do too awful much "damage" with by backslides. Maybe.......

....But he was very withdrawn when he was here......sad...