i agree, you have spent so much energy making sure H isn't mad at you. You don't need to constantly defend yourself to him. If there is a boundary that was crossed, that is okay to discuss it, but end it there.

you definitely need to keep distancing yourself, because too much thought is focusing on H.

((B))

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."