Need Help handling affair thats still going on

[kjensen]

Good points peacetoday!
I believe he told his therapist about the A, but he hasn't seen her since the "rekindling" last week. I did go to one therapy session with him and his therapist and I remember we talked about trust issues between us so I do think she knows. He did get rid of the OW and then things seemed to eventually improve a bit(he was also dealing with nervous breakdown/major depression diagnosis). I thinks he does feel stupid getting re-involved with the OW but I really don't know for sure since we aren't talking about it. He has said in the past that there was such a strong attraction between them-his heart raced when he was with her( I think it was anxiety and guilt myself)...
Do you think its possible for a man going through a MLC to "get past" his negative feelings he has for his wife and their marriage? Would that only happen at the end of the MLC?