Need Help handling affair thats still going on

[peacetoday]

I do not Think OW is just being sipportive and helpful
she has an agenda
but your focus has to stay on you not her
being upbeat and pleasant so your H can see who you are and you are the best choice
although your H is distant, it seems he is really unsure, so use this time to be the wife he wants
hopefully he may with the help of Therapy decide to work it out
with the OW out in the open and in therapy maybe it is possible
Also does the hterapist know H had A? If H cn make choice to get rid of OW, the M has the best chance..Maybe the therapist can work this
My H went to therapy with me after bomb, but he refused to admit A
so therapist ans I were botyh baffled why he didnt want to work on M
Most of these guys leave the M to pursue an A
if the A was to be eliminated somehow, the M would possibly stand a chance
peace