That is very true. I feel like it is useless to talk to him at this point.
Well, if you mean relationship or reality "talk," then your right. It is useless right now. If he does want to see the kids or wants to speak with them on the phone that isn't useless. Other than that just keep it "light."
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When he started being ugly just to make me mad I should have immediately said bye and gotten off the phone. He said some things that were intended just to try to hurt me, and I shouldn't have listened.
Yep, calmly say "it is not okay for you to treat me this way." Goodbye.
As for all that other crap he said. You got it right. Blah blah blah. Don't believe any of that.
It is extremely difficult, but you have to not expect much from him right now. Sounds like he is caught up in fantasy land. It is very sad and selfish that he is not seeing his children.
You have to be strong right now and be there from them like never before.
