Need Help handling affair thats still going on

[kjensen]

Thanks! Does wanting the questions answered ever go away? My mind is constantly focused on the resumption of the A and whether it will continue now that I know. I guess it is a positive that my H mentionned the OW had called him last night(about his resume). I can't help but see her as the enemy, even though I know my husband is responsible for his actions. I feel from the few things I know that she is a bit manipulative or at the very least has her own agenda about him. If he finds a job outside the house(he owns his own business and has an office in our home) then he won't see me very much at all. Do you think I am reading too much into this or is she just being supportive and helpful(like he thinks)?