That is very true. I feel like it is useless to talk to him at this point. We came home, kids had their baths, and went to bed and then I wasted my time being on the phone arguing with him.
Yes Jack, I did allow myself to get into that conversation.
When he started being ugly just to make me mad I should have immediately said bye and gotten off the phone. He said some things that were intended just to try to hurt me, and I shouldn't have listened. He told me OW (the womanchild he's seeing) told him he needs to see the kids more, and that SHE wants to spend time with them. He also said that he is going to move her in with him soon, and that as soon as our divorce is final he will put a ring on her finger and marry her.
The thought of our children being around their father with his freaking 19 year old girl makes me sick to my stomach. That is why he said those things.
He then called me back like an hour later and said some blah,blah,blah, I do love you, I just said that stuff to hurt you, I will not move her in with me, blah,blah. He says he just let his "temper" talk. The funny thing is I didn't say anything that should have made him so mad. I just wanted him to not ignore his kids.
Oh my gosh if it wasn't for my kids, I just wish he would take her and get the h*ll out of here and leave me alone to go on with my life. However, just like Trapt said, we are connected for life through our two children.
I have got to not let this affect me. I slept about 3 hours last night because of this crap. I have been doing really well until that episode. I've actually been sleeping better than when we were together.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
