"As for the text if in doubt do nowt!" - Naej - Ali has too-ed and fro-ed with contacting her ex a lot over the past months - I'm sure that if she is any doubt - she won't!!!
Ali- I've never ever seen you take a half- hearted step...although you've played out all sorts of scenarios here and like I've said before - you've put up lots on this board for all to chew over and share with you - and I admire you immensely for that, sometimes that can obscure your true intentions and actions as we become wrapped up in the possibilities!
But I wouldn't for a minute suggest that you do anything different! Some of this is stuff us very interested bystanders have to learn to deal with!
I'm pretty confident in saying - we're all with you - every step of the way!!! So long Ali - that you have a plan to deal with all eventualities...
BTW - it was the "not overthinking" things that struck me as the key this time!
Now - I hope that hasn't got you over-thinking things!!!
